Saturday, July 26, 2014

I'm Coming Out of the Closet

I've known I was a democrat as far back as grade school when I first learned the differences in the two primary political party's platforms.  I have not wavered on that position, although I have not always voted democrat.   Yes, I have on occasion voted for a republican, because I felt that person would've been a better president. (you are welcome Mr Reagan).

Over the last 30+ years of being of legal age (to vote) I have pretty much kept my political opinions to myself.  I was taught that your votes were secret, hence the secrecy around the polling place and privacy while in the voting booth and turning in your secret ballot.  So I only shared my democrat preferences with very close friends or relatives.  As a self-employed person for most of my life, I never showed a preference one way or the other about politics in my business establishment because I figured that approximately one half of my customers were like me and the other half were not, and I didn't want to offend the 'other half'.


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It seems that of late (since the 2008 elections) people have become more outspoken about their political opinions...from what I see the most outspoken have been the republicans and tea party members.  My neighbors, community leaders, and the businesses that I frequent don't seem to think it's a problem to publicly rant about the opposing party, or fill their yard (or business windows) with posters and signs supporting their choices and strongly opposing the other, as if 'their' choice was the only 'right' one.

None of my democrat friends, democrat neighbors, or democrat owned business that I frequented were doing this.  If you drove around in my neighborhood it would appear we were 100% Republican, when in fact we are nearly a 50/50 split. My husband even succumbed to the pressure and asked me to remove the small magnetic bumper sticker that supported Barrack Obama before we left the house so no radical republican/tea partyist would scratch up my car (they were actually doing that).  We democrats kept silent, we didn't boast loudly that we were voting democrat. We didn't stand on street corners shouting political propaganda at passer-byes, we didn't have huge rally's with Fox Channel celebrities making hate speeches. And we certainly didn't post signs in our businesses meant to offend one half of our customers.

But I feel a change coming on. I personally (and I'm not alone) am fed up listening to the nonsense that people are repeating as fact because they heard it on a Fox station. (I refuse to call it Fox 'News'). I am tired of keeping silent when a loud mouth racist republican insults or disrespects our President.  I'm tired of shopping at businesses that make it clear they don't like democrats.  I'm tired of not expressing my thoughts in mixed company because I don't want to offend someone (who has NO trouble with offending me).  I am tired of being a closeted Democrat.

I am coming out of the 'Democrat' Closet!  This next election season I am going to proudly share my choice in who I feel should be our next President and who should fill all of the other political positions beneath him or her. I am not going to remove my bumper sticker. I am going to host an election night party.  And I am going to speak openly about my beliefs.  But I am going to be a better, more respectful citizen, by doing all of this without becoming an offensive jerk like the people I have quietly tolerated for the last 6 years. 

Yes, in the next election season you are going to see a whole new Chicken Lady who ain't Chicken anymore!  
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Good For You!!!!!!
1 reply · active 557 weeks ago
It must be an age thing. I’ve liberated myself from political affiliation a year ago at age 42. At 18 I registered with the Republican Party because I was told by the family pastor and by my father that to do otherwise - and certainly to vote otherwise - was anti Christian, and that women must not attempt to spite God in the voting booth. Last year, after years of disenfranchisement and regarding the Party’s vitriolic rage-rhetoric with increasing dismay, I submitted the paperwork and officially left the GOP. I am savoring the glory of my mid life non associated wild-womanness. I imagine somewhere along the way I’ll register with some party in order to earn back the right to vote in the primaries, but for now I am happy NOT to be counted among the petulant, angry, patriarchal ranks of the GOP.
1 reply · active 557 weeks ago
Well Good for You Misty! I do agree that mid-life brings out the best in us women...and wild-womaness too! You probably don't know this but your fabulous video rants have helped to spur my coming out...it's been brewing for a while and finally I just couldn't contain it any longer. Wish you would make more videos...I have probably worn out my YouTube button re watching them.
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Cherie Trippy · 554 weeks ago

How did I miss this post! Yeah to freedom of speech and saying 'OUT LOUD" what your political views are~any of your views on life, books, early childhood experiences! I am touched by your comment about losing yourself in books as a child! They were my escape from an abusive childhood as well and my house is filled with books! I am just learning about e-books and appreciate your tips. I gradually became a 'Liberal' and some may even say Socialist when I supported Health Care for all...I also would like to see College for all...This transformation occurred when I left my abusive husband at the tender age of 29-30; two small children and 'on my own' Began working (again) as a nurse; flipping from days to evenings to nights! Full time parenthood and then the devastating news of my 11 y.o having cancer...There was NO help! Very different world when you see children who are hungry and families being destroyed by medical/financial debt in the face of catastrophic medical care/needs~I am Much Stronger and happier as a person being out from under the daily control of my very oppressive LOL republican husband who NEVER helped with our daughters stating that I was the 'custodial' parent and 'just figure it out! I have never looked back or felt sad about leaving him! My daughter said to me when we moved into our apartment and left the BIG house; OH MOMMY; thank you for leaving daddy...She ran from room to room and was experiencing the same freedom I felt...We laughed and cried and she said "This place is SO Big! We lived those years to the fullest.

Our little city in Michigan pays for 4 full years of education in private and public colleges when a child graduates from the Kalamazoo Public Schools! It it called "the Promise" and I love this about our little town. President Obama came to our town and gave the commencement speech to our Local High school graduating class the first year he was in office! Because of this my youngest daughter received a degree in Aeronautical Engineering! In fact because our Public High school participated in Dual enrollment; she received two Majors when she graduated! Engineering and Spanish/Language Arts and a Minor in Physics and Chemistry. (Proud Mamma!)

It is good to be older and wiser; seeing the pun-dents repeat the same 'spin' and I refuse to watch FOX now...I am SO thankful for our president and all he has accomplished! Our middle class is/has become the lower class and our desire to 'go back' to homesteading and being self sufficient comes from a struggle and brings us/ME into the happiest days of my life!

Sadly my beautiful daughter passed away from her cancer; but she left me with beautiful peaces of art, poetry and her love and spirit. In a local interview she said to the reporter; "Don't feel sorry for me; I am happy and having a Wonderful Life!" and she did live every second to the fullest.

Here is to Being BRAVE and being authentic! Not letting bullies keep us in silence~
Cherie
1 reply · active 554 weeks ago
Wow! When you decide to start commenting you really go for it, lol. I find so many parallels that it's kind of freaky that our paths crossed on this blog. I too left an oppressive relationship, escaping with my two daughters and the clothes on our backs. Like your daughters, mine told me they didn't care that we were living crammed into a studio apartment with three military cots to sleep on and cooking on a two burner electrical unit sitting on a counter, they were finally happy and at peace.

I cannot imagine what it must have been like to lose your daughter and be fighting cancer with your younger daughter now. My heart goes out to you.

Continue being Brave!

Anna

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